Finding Motivation: The Procrastinator’s Curse

In April of this year I posted to this blog What’s Stopping You ( where I addressed many of the reasons that people do not achieve their dreams and goals, with the biggest culprit to non-achievement being procrastination.  Since that published that post, I have received many comments either defending or attacking procrastination as either a valid stumbling block or an overused excuse.  Mostly, I have been asked to offer a bit more help to those stuck in the vortex of I’ll do it tomorrow.  So here is my reponse:

     Motivation: something that provides a reason for a person to act a certain way.

Procrastination: the act or habit of putting off or delaying.

motivDepending upon your personality, you might not need profound motivation to achieve your goals and aspirations. Simply the desire to be or have what you seek is enough to drive you from step A to Z. Whether it’s weight loss, a change of career or home, or the ending of a dysfunctional relationship, some of us can stand up, make plans (or not), and manifest a change.

However, if you are a procrastinator, making changes to your body or life can be difficult, if not painful. Planning may not be the problem, you may easily cogitate on ideas and pros and cons lists all day long, but if you maintain a state of reluctance to actually take action (i.e., procrastination), then changes never occur.  Even if it there’s urgent motivation (your health, your finances, the needs of your family), to a procrastinator, obvious needs are often not strong enough to overcome a lifetime of chronic deferment.

So how do find the right motivation to get off your bum and into action?motiv5

Start by facing your fears. More often than not it’s fear that keeps you from action, rather than laziness. Cut to the core of the problem. Fears boil down to one of these four: Fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of pain, or fear of the unknown.  Once you name the fear, then acknowledge what limits these fears truly contain (i.e., it will be difficult, but it won’t kill you).

Next, pick the hardest task first. We all tend to number our steps starting with easy (baby steps), progressing to the big and more scary steps.  Reverse this. Tackle that which seems like it will take the most of your energy right off the bat.  It’s all down hill from there (in a good way).

motiv1Now keep your steps simple and brief.  The longer things take the more likely you’ll loose motivation. Keep intermediary goals to something achievable in a short period of time (a few days or a week). Once you have several successes under your belt, you’re more likely to continue plodding towards your main goal.

Lastly, seek support.  Find family, friends, or co-workers who understand the cycle of procrastination. You may think having a go-getter in your corner will keep you accountable and focused.  For a habitual procrastinator a cheerleader is often a deterrent. But if you can find an ally who, like you, moves slowly and over-analyzes everything, you might find that while they’re stuck in their situation, they are great and helping you get unstuck. Then you can repay the favor.


In the end, remember that procrastination is a choice.  If something in your life isn’t changing and you’re unhappy about that – make a new choice!

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  1. Pingback: Motivation vs. Procrastination | A Kick In The Butt

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